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Date: 11/18/2008 10:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 10657
I think it depends on the maturity of the couple. Now with that being said if, it was my child I would say before you commit to someone make sure that's what you really want. You don't have to label yourself as taken to be happy.  |
Date: 11/18/2008 10:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 64637
I met my hubby when I was 16.....8 years later still going strong!  It is entirely possible that they could be together for a long time. I am still very much in love with my hubby nearly 8 years later( And i will never stop! Our goal is hopefully 60 years together). Also, I believe that they took the next step even without the ring by moving in together.  |
Date: 11/18/2008 10:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 53961
No, but there is more to life than finding or looking for "the one" at 16...  |
Date: 11/19/2008 12:25:00 AM
From Authorid: 23963
I guess it depends completely on the individuals...in my opinion, there is so much to life to live and you should never go looking for someone. Just allow love to come to you, it will happen when the time is right, and you will know if the person is right for you or not.  |
Date: 11/19/2008 12:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 53052
it doesn't happen all that often but i do think you can find the one at 16... my parents started dating at 15 and still happily married.. my hubby's parents are similar(great relationship role models for us) it doesn't happen all that often.. and if they plan to stay true to eachother and not just jump into marriage quickly for not so pure reasons then it can really work  |
Date: 11/19/2008 1:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 37150
I think they're young for that...but it's a case by case basis I guess. I think teenagers jump into things too quickly....Being with only one person takes a lot of commitment. I was 17 when I got w/ my boyfriend and I live with him now. But it wasn't until I was twenty that I knew he was "the one" i want to marry. He gave me a promise ring around twenty also. It depends. I wish your friends luck.  |
Date: 11/19/2008 1:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 42945
I met my hubby when I was 12, got married at 16 and 10months and still married just on 50yrs later...so yes, it is possible...  |
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Date: 11/19/2008 1:46:00 AM
From Authorid: 62606
I think in the older days, finding "the one" at 16 was more likely to be possible, but that no longer rings true today (IMHO). At age 16, you're still far from finding your true self and your thoughts, opinions, tastes and morals are likely to change significantly 10 years later. Therefore, it's extremely unlikely that the person who made you happy at 16 will make you happy later in life. Also, scientifically speaking, I believe it was Dr. Phil who mentioned that young people often do things they regret later in life because the part of the brain responsible for logic and reasoning does not fully develop until the mid-twenties. That's another reason you may THINK you've found the one at such a young age. In my late teens, I dated a guy for nearly three years and was ready to give my life to him. I'm 27 now and speaking from personal experience, today, I would NEVER date that same guy, who I loved so incredibly much, that I used to lie and bed and cry about being so lucky to have someone like him in my life. I cringe to think about how stupid I would have been if I continued the relationship any longer.  |
Date: 11/19/2008 1:53:00 AM
From Authorid: 62146
I think although it is possible, it's still very rare. Who ever dose find there soulmate at 16 is one lucky soul. I somtimes wish I found my soulmate at 16. Instead off being 21 and constantly getting hurt and dumped.  |
Date: 11/19/2008 2:36:00 AM
From Authorid: 8024
In this world you must believe always.. anythings possible..the key is to only believe..if you believe within your heart and never faulter on that belief, then yes anythings possible..c  |
Date: 11/19/2008 5:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 2030
I think it's tough to find your shoes at 16.  |
Date: 11/19/2008 5:25:00 AM
From Authorid: 62849
Depends on the teenager. My sister met her husband of 12 years when she was 16 (they got married when she was 21)- so it worked out for them. Me? I could not have found "the one" at that age, because I didn't know myself well enough to be good with another person. I had to grow up a bit first.  |
Date: 11/19/2008 6:50:00 AM
From Authorid: 62901
My best friend's little sister is 22 and has been with her b/f since she was 15 or 16.... and they've lived together for 3 yrs now and are really happy and plan on marriage, children, buying a house. So yea, it's definitely possible! I also know of a couple ppl I went to highschool with that are married to who they started seeing at 15 or 16 too!  |
Date: 11/19/2008 6:56:00 AM
From Authorid: 64365
It's possible...many have.  |
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Date: 11/19/2008 6:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 62901
As for me though, I have to agree with Beags.... I went through so many guys between 14 and 20. Didn't know what I wanted or even knew myself. I'd like someone a lot and date them then poof, I wouldn't talk to them anymore. Not for any particular reason either. It wasn't until I messed up and got pregnant at 20, had a baby at 21, alone, lived alone with no help and was a mother... that I finally grew up and got to know myself and became a better person. Then I met my hubby when I was 22, and I feel it was a good thing to have met him when I did, cause if it would've been prior to that, I probably either never would have went out with him to begin with, or we probably wouldn't have lasted anyway. |
Date: 11/19/2008 8:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 35720
My best friend is 22 and has been with her boyfriend since she was 15.. they have a kid now and are very happy.. it's possible, but not typical.  |
Date: 11/19/2008 3:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 45630
My mum met my dad around that age and 30 years later they are still going strong.  |
Date: 11/19/2008 3:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 62100
It's possible, but unlikely- my 16 year old daughter thinks that she has met "the one" and has been with him off and on for a year- but this is like the second "he's the one I can see myself marrying and having kids with" that she's been dating since she was 14..I won't discount her feelings, and we've settled into the reality that she obviously feels strongly for him but still- if "this" kid is the one, God help her..my gut tells me though that she will find "the one" a few more times yet before she actually does.  |
Date: 11/19/2008 4:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 21903
well, really anything could go. I knew a couple in high school that dated pretty much their whole h/s career and everyone thought they'd get married, but they ended up breaking up just before or just after graduation (its been a long time, so I don't really remember which). Then there is my cousin who is married to her high school sweetheart...HOWEVER, they broke up at some point and he got married to someone else and has since had that marriage annulled and marreid my cousin. So really anything could go. CAN someone find "the one" at 16: yes. Is it common? Not so much. You'll find this to be the case b/c people just change SO much as they grow up and in the grand scheme of things, 16 is still SOOOO young. I am not AT ALL the same person I was at 16. Sure I share some of the characteristics of that girl, but I look back and it isn’t even me..and that was only 9 years ago. (*gasp!* Almost 10!!)  |
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