So Angela, the girl I babysit for in turn for payment of the van we have, her estranged, abusive, vindicitive husband soon to be x husband after the divorce is finally over, is comming home for 30 days.
He left Asia and the Army for 30 days leave for family emergency seeing as she filed for divorce and had him served the papers.
the deal with the van, 5 dollars an hour until it's payed off, bonus being, she leaves them in my care for no less than 8 hours a day and already one 11 hour day. It'll be paid off in 9 to 14 total days. Sweet right?
not really now. I'll have to be picked up elsewhere and dropped off in the same location so he doesn't ever find out where I live or I'll inevitably be involved. The things he's already done to her have me afraid.
I'll not trust her kids here any more until he is back over seas in 30 days from TOMORROW night. See, Roomie and her have been seeing each other for a while now and if he knows this is where the guy lives that is seeing his wife (even though the divorce is in full swing) We know what will happen. He is literally crazy.
He is hell bent on revenge for her leaving him. But after what he put her through for the last 5 years I cannot and will not blame her for doing so. She finally wised up and decided to get him out of her life for the most part and move on. He won't let her. He's tried to get her fired from work, said he's gonna kidnap all 3 kids, God knows beat her within an inch of her life.
I'm afraid for her and her kids to my wits end, but alos kinda not so ok with having to go over there to watch hers to pay this van off. If things get too bad, i just flat out won't. Not till he's gone. I wanted to have it all done before Nathan was born, but it may not go that way.
Well, just do me a favor and pray for us. She is a great friend and her kids are wonderful. I think I may call her tonight and tell her were better off not being in contact until he's gone with the kids and toughing out the two bigger girls, who one will be in school.... and austin and nathan, but Austin will be in school too. so it'll be just more like a baby and the middle child of hers. I can do that.
**Update** I called her told her my fears and she had the same as well. so Until he is back in asia I will not be taking her kids nor seeing her at all. Still, pray for her and her family. he really scares me, and you ALL know, no one, NO ONE scares me. She's afraid he'll find out about our friendship and ruin it. Not gonna happen, bring him on. I'm ready to fight tooth and nail if that happens. But he's really gotta go. I'm proud of her thinking everything through and trying to keep me and my family safe. It sucks she lives so close. 2 blocks kids! 2 blocks away from hell for 30 days.
LMAO it is good though that we have talked it trough a few times. I feel like it's some sort of co vert operation and we all have to be ninjas hiding in the shadows.
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