Dad where r u ? Alfred Lewis.....Escalon,Ca. ????????   Author: 17  Category:(Interesting) Created:(8/28/1999 10:27:00 PM) This post has been Viewed (1434 times) My mother was involved with a married man and became pregnant with me . Her lover was married for about 10 years i think and had 3 kids already though he was very unhappy with his situation . His wife was so uncaring that she did not even get bothered by their relationship. But when my mother discovered she was pregnant she felt it best to leave him and not destroy his household with my birth . I have many unanswered questions though . My mother Shelia Gertrude Dwiggins or (Saling) or Warner i am not sure what her last name was at the time putr on my birth certificate that my father was Elias Dominguez . though she said this was not my father just a man who care for her and was there for me while in my early years . She says my father is named Alfred Lewis . His last known residence was Escalon , Ca. he is married with 3 possibly 5 kids which are all 1\2 brothers and 1 1\2 sister for sure that i have not gotten to share my life with . He is tall possibly 6'3 weighin! 235 pounds . I know he had a thyroid problem . He also played the guitar in a road house bar in Escalon . I dont know if he really wants anything to do with me cause as i said my mother made the decision to not let him be in my life feeling it was best for me but as i grow older i find that it is not . Please help me . I dont want anything from him except to meet him and shake his hand and anything more i would strictly leave up to him . Father Name : Alfred Lewis Last Known address : escalon Ca. Mother Name : Shelia Gertrude Dwiggins ( Saling) (warner) currently in hayward ca. other citys have lived are Santa monica , venice , sacremento , Rancho cardova , other parts of cal. born in CHarleston West Virginia My name : James Elias Saling Born : San Jose california . Dec. 3 1973 Please help me ! How it changed my life: I feel a huge void in my life without my father . I want to meet him . I want to talk to him . I want to share my life with him . I want him to see the man I have become . You can join Unsolved Mysteries and post your own mysteries or interesting stories for the world to read and respond to Click here Scroll all the way down to read replies. Spring is coming